A request with love

Sometimes I wonder what is easy, to be good or to be bad! Hm.. I believe former is relatively difficult than latter. You know why I think it is relative because I have seen people keeping others happy to get benefited from them rather than saying them the bitter truth. However,if you honestly try to be bad at others it takes a moment's time, whereas to keep others happy, will consume your life still there might be tons of grievance of not fulfilling promises. In addition it is a tendency among us to forget the good and remember the bad.

You know our social system is very unique! Everything comes at a cost either negative or positive! If you are good at others the price that you have to pay to remain there is much higher than if you are otherwise.

Why I am saying this because I have experienced this. Once you are in the good book of someone, you have to make extra effort to be there. You cannot have expectation, you cannot feel jealous, you cannot be rude at them, you have to deliver the result everytime even though your heart is feeling suffocated and your soul is crying. Is not it irony? You love someone and forgive their hundreds of mistake but they cannot tolerate even one of yours. They will push you to the corner to search for an alternate to make you realize about your fault wherever and whenever possible.

Anyway this is life and as we are a part of this we have to endure it? Remember what Scarlet in 'gone with the wind' said " what cannot be cured should be endured".

If you can change from this stereotype then please do at least for me because it hurts and sometimes hurts too much beyond endurance...